Planning a potluck dinner? Experts swear by these 6 tips – you'll never run into menu troubles or decor woes again

From curating the menu to setting the table, experts share exactly how to host a successful potluck

Aerial view of fall dinner with ham, red cabbage and casserole, with white plates and a white linen table runner
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As summer winds down, I’ve been eager to bring some of my fall table decor to life. This year, instead of hosting a traditional dinner, I’ve decided to finally embrace the art of the potluck. I’ve always loved the concept – what’s better than a menu full of delightful surprises?

After a few summer hosting mistakes, I’m determined to get the potluck process just right in time for cozy fall gatherings. To make sure I do, I reached out to experts for their top tips on hosting the perfect potluck dinner.

1. Get creative with the theme

Turquoise and white dining room with blue and white patterned tablecloth, olive green wooden chairs, and vases of fuschias

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The menu might be the star of the show, but for me, the theme of a potluck is just as essential – though I often feel clueless when it comes to holiday hosting tips.

‘A theme is the secret ingredient to making a potluck feel intentional,’ says Virginia Frischkorn, founder and CEO of the event-planning platform Partytrick. ‘Since a potluck is, by definition, a collection of different dishes and styles, your theme helps it feel elevated and cohesive instead of haphazard.’

For my own gathering, I’ll be drawing inspiration from late-summer produce – Martha Stewart's blackberry and apple cake will likely make an appearance – while weaving in a few classic fall flavors.

‘Let the theme reflect your mood and the season,’ says designer and cookbook author Peter Som. ‘Chic comfort classics is one of my favorite themes – think shrimp cocktail and martinis. And don’t be afraid to mix high and low; caviar and potato chips are practically soulmates.’

2. Plan a menu that's both practical and imaginative

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'As the host of the potluck, you're in charge of making the entree – whether that's grilled chicken for a classic barbecue or slow roasted pork shoulder for a Southern-style spread,' says cookbook author and recipe developer Alexis deBoschnek. 'I'd always recommend taking charge of the primary protein and trusting your guests with everything else.'

Though I'm always tempted to prepare something elaborate, simple recipes are the key here. I've learned to prioritize dishes I can batch-cook, helping to reduce the time I spend in the kitchen during the event itself.

'Try make-ahead dishes that get better as they sit, like tomato salad or braised short ribs,' advises Peter. 'Never underestimate the power of a beautiful crudité platter, either; it’s a showstopper that requires minimal prep.'

3. Batch-make your drinks

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'Batching drinks is a host’s secret weapon,' says Peter. 'A pitcher of grapefruit Negronis or a cucumber spritz means you’re not playing bartender all night. Just be sure to have an enticing non-alcoholic option, too.'

Of course, you can cut down on prep time even further by delegating drinks to your guests instead. 'I always divide up non-food contributions like ice, drinks, or even the setup and cleaning,' says Virginia. 'Some guests might prefer to contribute time or supplies rather than cooking, which could end up benefiting you as a host if you dread setting up or washing the dishes.'

4. Offer clear guidance to your guests

Menu card with yellow mimosa decoration on top of a plate on a table set for Easter with a green and yellow colour theme

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Whether you compile a meticulous checklist or simply drop your guests a text message, being crystal clear with the food requests will guarantee an enjoyable (and seamless) potluck experience.

'I always advise that the host of a potluck create a menu plan split into mains, sides, salads, breads, desserts, and beverages,' says etiquette expert Nick Leighton. 'Invite your guests to take their pick, making sure to choose a different category once each has been filled.'

A vital tip? 'Whatever your guests bring, make sure that it doesn't require them to take over your kitchen before serving up,' Nick adds. 'Anything more than a few finishing touches can complicate things.'

5. Aim for a 'casually elegant' table setting

Cream linen tablecloth with white plates and black and white patterned napkins

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I've had plenty of time to put my summer table decor ideas and outdoor evening party ideas into practice, but I'm leaning into a more laid-back feel at upcoming potluck dinners. (Country grandmother-inspired tableware is my latest obsession, and it's absolutely perfect for a potluck.)

'Table decor doesn’t have to be fussy,' confirms Peter. 'I'd suggest a linen tablecloth, a few mismatched candle holders, and a bundle of herbs mixed with flowers in bud vases. Make sure to dim the lights to create a cozy, inviting vibe.'

6. Create a space for cheerful conversation

A fall-themed dining table designed by McGee & Co.

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'A great potluck is about more than just the food; every gathering should be an opportunity for guests to connect more deeply,' says Virginia.

'I like to ask guests to share the story behind their dish, whether it’s a family recipe passed down through generations or a TikTok hack they’ve mastered. These little stories transform the meal into the kind of shared experience that we all crave.'

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I am a Content Editor on the Living team at Homes & Gardens. My love for lifestyle journalism began when I interned at Time Out Dubai when I was 15 years old; I went on to study English and German at Oxford, before covering property and interior design at Country & Town House magazine. To me, living beautifully is all about good food and lots of colorful home decor.

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