We all have 'house dysmorphia' – says interior designer Breegan Jane
The HGTV designer on the aspirational phenomenon that's making us feel bad
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Interior designer and HGTV star Breegan Jane says that when organizing our homes, we need to cut ourselves some slack. Because otherwise, we could fall into the trap of 'house dysmorphia'.
When we spoke to the LA-based TV host and entrepreneur, she described a 'second wave' of unrealistic comparison – one that applies to our homes as opposed to our bodies.
Breegan recently posted a home organizing Instagram reel (opens in new tab) that contained the very same message. This clip was about giving yourself 'garage grace' – forgiving ourselves for our cluttered garages when staging a house to sell, given that most people expect a garage to be used for storage.
Breegan Jane on 'house dysmorphia'
So, what is 'house dysmorphia' and how can we avoid falling into its trap?
In light of her comments about embracing garage clutter, we asked Breegan if she thinks we're too hard on ourselves when it comes to decluttering and organization.
'I think we're extremely hard on ourselves,' she responds. 'What did somebody call it... Let me think of this phrase because I loved it so much – "house dysmorphia," much like body dysmorphia.'
And, you guessed it, she says it's coming off Instagram. 'Much like we used to compare ourselves, or we still do, but we've gotten a little better at knowing the supermodel on the cover of the magazine isn't a realistic projection of what you should be aiming for with your body,' she says.
'We're doing this with our houses. And as a designer, all of my colleagues, we're posting our work, but what you don't see is the pile of mess in the other corner.' For example, she and other designers she knows all unplug all of their phone chargers before taking a photo.
Breegan Jane is a TV host, designer, entrepreneur & philanthropist in Los Angeles. Breegan’s signature style meshes the artistic and elegant with livable comfort. She achieves a stunning, modern aesthetic with decor that maximizes elegance and fosters simplicity, serenity, and supreme comfort.
'You never see on Instagram an interior designer's public work with the phone charger in the corner, but who lives without a phone charger?' she asks. She has a point, as even those of us who have found smart ways to organize cables have chargers lurking on our nightstands and kitchen counters. And this is totally fine. And if your laptop or phone charger cables are taking over, Command hook strips (opens in new tab) (featured in Breegan's personal Amazon store (opens in new tab) can help hold them in place.
Homes & Garden's Deputy Editor (digital) Jennifer Ebert agrees that we can be too hard on ourselves when it comes to how our homes look. 'Anyone who loves interiors will be used to seeing immaculate kitchens and beautifully styled dining areas on their Instagram feeds,' says Jen.
'I love to see the work of some of my favorite designers and the new ways in which people are decorating their homes, it's just important to bear in mind that these are not a representation of the average household,' Jen adds. Whether you have a busy family home or a studio, these stunning spaces are a minority.'
Jennifer Ebert is the Deputy Editor (Digital) of Homes & Gardens online. Before starting this position, she had completed various interior design courses at KLC Design School, as well as working across Ideal Home, LivingEtc, 25 Beautiful Homes and Country Homes & Interiors as an interiors writer. Jen oversees and produces interior design content every day, from the latest decor trends to pieces that answer our readers' design dilemmas.
During our conversation, Breegan also highlights just how important it is to be realistic and practical when it comes to our homes. Be it organizing a closet or a bathroom cabinet, she says that storing our belongings in a way that suits us and how we live is far more important than aesthetics.
For instance, she says there's absolutely no point folding all of your scarves perfectly, because when you're rushing to put an outfit together, those three scarves you pull out of the drawer when you're trying to find the right one aren't going to get folded back again. A wicker basket, at Walmart (opens in new tab) is ideal for storing scarves, as it keeps them together and looks neat, even if inside they're all jumbled up.
As mentioned above, Breegan is convinced that we are entering a 'second wave of unrealistic goals,' putting ourselves under unnecessary pressure to achieve a home that looks a certain way and is unattainable.
'If you're trying to organize, you need to have to have an accurate goal set forward that isn't the cover of a magazine,' she asserts.
And how do we avoid falling into the trap of unrealistic comparison? Breegan says that where we go wrong is focusing on the end result while organizing when really, all the work is in the process.
Think about how you use the space you're organizing, which elements work, and which could be improved. And, ultimately, worry less about things being perfect, because the chances are they are flaws that nobody else notices.
Millie Hurst is Section Editor at Homes & Gardens, overseeing the Solved section, which provides readers with practical advice for their homes. She has been in the world of digital journalism for six years, having previously worked as Senior SEO Editor at News UK both in London and New York. She joined the Future team two years ago, working across a range of homes brands. Millie formerly worked as Senior Content Editor at Ideal Home, taking care of evergreen articles that help and inspire people to make the most of their homes and outdoor spaces. Millie has a degree in French and Italian and lives in North London.
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