11 dream kitchen upgrades homeowners always come to regret, according to experts

If you're considering a kitchen refresh, then it might be worth exploring the common dream kitchen upgrades homeowners always come to regret. It's easy to think of every new gadget and fixture as an upgrade, but not every new addition is good.

Although not as serious as major kitchen renovation regrets, such as kitchen layout mistakes, which can often get in the way of a functional kitchen, these upgrade mistakes can be costly, and take up valuable space.

We talked to interior designers and kitchen planners to learn what common dream upgrades are always demanded but never loved, so you know what to avoid for your kitchen ideas.

These are the dream kitchen upgrades homeowners regret

When planning out a kitchen remodel, it's a good idea to consider how you use the space first to decide which additions are worth it. While following kitchen trends is not a bad thing, adding in upgrades because they are ‘everywhere right now’ is a one-way ticket to remodel regret. Here's what designers think you should steer clear of unless your lifestyle *really* suits it.

1. Natural stone countertops or backsplashes

Marble kitchens and natural stone counters are a dream upgrade that can make any kitchen look luxurious, but the reality of these stones is often a far cry from the serene pictures on Pinterest.

'While marble certainly has its place in homes and can be stunning to look at, one place I always avoid using it is for kitchens. Marble happens to be one of the more delicate stones, which means constant maintenance and the need to "helicopter' over guests and children to preserve its beauty,' explains interior designer Becky Shea.

She also adds that etching is a big problem with marble, caused by acidic substances that leave their mark, permanently. 'It's not just acids that you need to look out for. Many common items such as oils, coffee, or even wine can stain the stone if not wiped up immediately,' she says.

To add to the long list of potential hazards, marble is also more susceptible to scratches, cracks, and chips, it's probably best to avoid natural stone for a more durable, man-made alternative.

2. Tiled countertops

When you're planning your dream kitchen, the last thing you're probably thinking about is cleaning it. But, it's really important to factor in these more practical considerations when choosing different features, especially the countertops.

‘Tile countertops, which have been very on trend in the past, have ridges of grout which are too challenging to keep clean if you use the kitchen frequently,' explains Wes Haas, director of design at COOPER Design Build.

Instead, consider creating a beautiful tile backsplash. This way, you still get the eye-catching feature of tiles without the tedious job of cleaning and re-grouting more than anyone wants to be doing. And, when it comes to countertops, there are so many beautiful options available nowadays, you can find something just as visually appealing without the upkeep.

Wes Haas

Wes is the design director at COOPER Design Build, and has been names the companies 'jack-of-all trades' as they haven’t figured out anything he can’t master.

3. Integrated appliances

When thinking about your dream kitchen upgrades, it can be easy to get carried away with wanting every appliance you can think of, and in turn, making space for them by opting for integrated appliances. But this is something homeowners always end up regretting in the long run.

'I often steer clients away from any integrated appliances such as built-in coffee machines or microwaves. The technology on these appliances updates frequently, and if they are ever in need of repair it can be quite the hassle,' explains Becca Casey, owner & principal designer at Becca Interiors.

There are plenty of ways to introduce these appliances into your kitchen without integrating them, especially when it comes to the best coffee makers. 'Opt for countertop coffee machines or microwaves that you can remove and update as you wish,' Becca suggests. These coffee bar ideas offer plenty of inspiration for curating spaces with countertop coffee machines.

4. Boiling water taps

This may be a controversial regret, but boiling water taps, although a sustainable kitchen idea, can sometimes be overkill, and also come with safety issues, especially if you have children running around the house.

‘While these are sleek, the costs for setting up and running them can add up. Moreover, they can be a concern in households with young ones,' says Artem Kropovinsky, interior designer and founder of Arsight.

While it feels like a luxury to have a boiling water tap, there are plenty of alternative options. 'Maybe think about getting a fast-heating electric kettle or an efficient stove that heats water swiftly, minus the concerns and long-term expenses,' Artem suggests.

5. Workstation sinks

In theory, workstation sinks are the dream feature to maximize functionality and make cleaning so much easier, but the reality is often quite different, especially in the average family home. We explore what is workstation sink in our separate feature.

‘Workstation sinks with built-in accessories may seem ideal, but they can be challenging to keep clean and functional due to their size and all the attachments,’ says Katrina Smith, kitchen expert and founder of Kitchensity.

Instead, opt for something more practical for your kitchen – this doesn't mean you have to add a basic or small sink, there are plenty of alternatives that have just as much impact. ‘Choose a high-quality single or double basin sink with customizable accessories like cutting boards and colanders for a more flexible setup,' suggests Katrina.

6. Trash compactors

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We are constantly searching for the best ways to dispose of household waste, but unless you have a commercial-sized kitchen in your home and are caring for an exceedingly large household, trash compactors are simply never used, says Wes Haas, director of design.

What’s more, they take up a lot of space, making them an impractical solution when trying to put a trash can in a small kitchen, and they are very expensive, which is why interior designers often advise you to avoid this kitchen upgrade.

It is a far better idea to invest in a stylish trash can, or a built-in option for a kitchen cabinet to keep your kitchen looking stylish without compromising on functionality.

7. Pot fillers

Pot fillers in the kitchen have been in and out of kitchen trends over the last few years, but one thing is for sure – they have fallen out of favor with designers. They might make it much easier to fill up a large pot with water, but they can often come with a lot of issues when not used regularly.

‘Introducing pot fillers means another possible leakage point and more plumbing tasks,’ bemoans Artem. ‘If seldom used, stale water might be a problem. A retractable faucet close to your cooking area could be a simpler alternative without added complications.'

If you're cooking every day, and therefore using a pot filler daily, you might be able to justify this dream home upgrade, but if this isn't the case, you will probably end up regretting adding a pot filler to your space. In this case, perhaps just stick to the sink's faucet.

8. An oversized kitchen island

There are so many kitchen island types it can be hard to know what to pick from, but going too big is often a homeowner's regret.

Envisioning a grand, sprawling island within your kitchen can be tempting, but it's important to pause and ponder. Overly large kitchen island ideas can disrupt workflow and accessibility, creating an imbalance in the space. While an island provides an excellent gathering spot, remember that it should not hinder your movement within the kitchen.

A well-executed kitchen design considers the appropriate proportions for the space, so go for a kitchen island that fits your kitchen, rather than simply fills it. 'Instead of opting for an oversized island, consider a well-proportioned one that accommodates both functionality and sociability without overwhelming the layout.

9. Pantry ladders

I think it would be safe to say that some of us have dreamed of floor-to-ceiling cabinets or bookshelves with rolling ladders ever since we saw them in childhood fairytale movies. But, as with many fairy stories, the harsh reality is they are incredibly impractical.

The reality is, having a huge ladder in your pantry will take up a lot of floor space, and will probably get in the way more than it will prove useful. ‘These might become obtrusive and take up needed ground space, especially in compact kitchens,’ says Artem.

As far as pantry ideas go, this is one to avoid. ‘Look into retractable shelving systems or even better, organize your kitchen in a manner that everything's within easy grasp, focusing on frequently used items,' advises Artem.

10. Open shelving

While open shelving ebbs in and out of trends, there are several downsides to open shelving that we have covered in the past, and they can sometimes lead to design regret. While they can be useful in small kitchens that lack wall space for cabinets, they are rarely a practical choice.

‘While open shelving can look stunning for kitchen shelving ideas, it can lead to clutter and maintenance challenges, making it hard to organize a kitchen, and more importantly, clean a kitchen,' says kitchen expert Katrina Smith. ‘Instead, I recommend combining closed and open storage solutions to strike a balance between display and functionality,' she suggests.

Consider replacing a couple of cabinets with open shelving – this works particularly well in kitchens that feel overcrowded by upper cabinetry, as open shelving can offer some much-needed breathing space without compromising on storage space.

11. Extravagant appliances

Choosing the best kitchen appliances is one of the most important parts of a kitchen remodel, especially as there are so many to choose from, all with different functions and fun gadgets.

Katrina suggests that you stick to simple, however, and avoid extravagant choices that many homeowners come to regret. After all, there's no point filling you kitchen with high-tech appliances that you never use – this space could be used for something more useful.

‘Investing in top-of-the-line appliances is enticing, but homeowners may regret this if they don't fully utilize all the features. Prioritize appliances that align with your cooking habits and needs,’ she urges.

FAQs

Are kitchen upgrades worth it?

In many instances, kitchen upgrades (be it new appliances or a whole remodel) are more than worth it, especially if your existing kitchen is old or outdated. The key to acing an upgrade, however, is to work within your means and only opt for new additions that add something to your space and lifestyle, not make it more difficult or sit there collecting dust.

What should a dream kitchen have?

The definition of a dream kitchen will change depending on personal preference and lifestyle. To create your dream kitchen, it is a good idea to spend a few weeks using your kitchen and taking note of what you use most, what you like and dislike about the space, and what you wish you had to make things easier. This will help to create a practical plan for your first steps, and create a good foundation for creating a beautiful kitchen that works for you.

Whether you are going all out with a new kitchen remodel, or are exploring budget kitchen ideas, it is best to stick with what you know you love, rather than follow the latest trend. Remember that interior design trends are there to guide your style, not dictate them, and when it comes to kitchens, it's an expensive mistake you don't want to risk making.